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Three Simple Steps to Satisfying Prayer

April 26, 2016 by Rebecca Shirey Filed Under: Uncategorized 10 Comments

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“Prayer is not asking. Prayer is putting oneself in the hands of God, at His disposition, and listening to His voice in the depth of our hearts.” -Mother Teresa

For years I made prayer too hard. I struggled to know how to pray. I was certain if I spoke with more authority, or followed a certain format, I would discover the key to satisfying prayer.

But as I matured and learned from the Teacher, my prayer life took on a different focus. It became more satisfying, and I discovered a liberating truth: Prayer isn’t complicated.

Although I still have much to learn, I rely on these simple steps.

Lean on the Prayer Teacher

The Prayer life of Jesus inspires me. He prayed early in the morning, late at night, and sometimes he prayed all night. Jesus prayed alone and with his disciples. He prayed for his disciples and he prays for us.

After observing the prayer life of Jesus, the disciples asked him to teach them to pray. We can take a cue from the disciples.

He will also teach us how to pray.

The writer of Hebrews tells us, “Therefore he is able to save completely those who come to God through him, because he always lives to intercede for them” (7:25).

Jesus is always praying. In fact, he lives to make intercession.

Jesus prays specifically for you. He call you by name. He knows your every concern, and your every need.

 Since he prays with perfect clarity, you can join him in what he’s saying. You are never alone in prayer, because the Holy Spirit is praying with you, and through you. Seek his heart and he will give you revelation and wisdom about how to pray.

When in doubt, utter a prayer of agreement. “I agree with you, Jesus. Your will is my heart’s desire.”

We don’t always know what to pray, but he does. Lean on the prayer Teacher.

Listen More

It  took me years to learn this essential element of satisfying prayer. Listen more. Speak less.

Isaiah 50:4 guides me.

The Sovereign Lord has given me an instructed tongue, to know the word that sustains the weary. He wakens me morning by morning, wakens my ear to listen like one being taught (Isaiah 50:4).

Read this verse again. Notice the division of responsibility.

He will give you an instructed tongue.

He will give you a word for the weary. The weary one might be you, or another person God wants you to encourage.

He awakens our ears to listen. We don’t have to strain to hear him. He will speak and he alone can awaken our ears to hear him.

What do we do? We listen.

Learn Simplicity

Prayer isn’t a formula. A prayer pattern working for someone else, might not be your most comfortable way of connecting with him. Allow God to be personal to you, while you eliminate preconceived ideas about prayer. Simply enjoy being with him.

Ask him, “What do you have for me today?” He will lead you into a satisfying relationship with him through prayer.

Matthew 6:6 communicates the essence of simplicity before him. “Here’s what I want you to do. Find a quiet, secluded place so you won’t be tempted to role-play before God. Just be there as simply and honestly as you can manage. The focus will shift from you to God and you will begin to sense his grace” (MSG).

What simple steps have helped you in your prayer life? I look forward to hearing from you.

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Comments

  1. Michelle Castano says:
    April 26, 2016 at 4:20 pm

    I Love this! Your Words-Prayer isn’t a Formula. A Prayer Formula working for someone else, might not be your most comfortable way of connecting with him; is a confirmation to a conversation I was having with My Sister this Morning 😃 Also Listen more and Speak Less is a word He has given me twice now in the past few days; which is another confirmation from Him through this writing. Thank You for Your Beautiful Words and Teaching!

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    • Rebecca Shirey says:
      April 26, 2016 at 4:54 pm

      Thank you, Michelle. I’m so glad this post God confirmed what He is speaking to your heart. And you’ve just confirmed that this post is the one I needed to schedule for today. I love how He works! Blessings, Michelle.

      Reply
  2. Stephanie Presley says:
    April 26, 2016 at 8:10 pm

    An encouraging reminder. How quickly I can forget what works, why it works, and how it works; especially when something unplanned pops up to grab my attention. Your three steps reminds me of how much I’ve gained by connecting with Him over a cup of coffee in the mornings. Simplicity without self imposed intensity. An interacting, two way conversation rather than a one sided plea. I love those times. And I’m eager to return there. Thank you.

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    • Rebecca Shirey says:
      April 26, 2016 at 8:50 pm

      Thank you for checking in, Stephanie. I also love connecting with Him over coffee, or water, or sipping lemonade! I love your statement, “Simplicity without self imposed intensity.” You are so right, my friend.

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  3. Dan Wilson says:
    April 30, 2016 at 7:58 pm

    Rebecca,

    What beautiful and comforting words, thank you so much! Listen more, always great advice. Mom used to say listen to you little voice, it will always be right. I know who she was talking about listening to now.

    Thank you so much, Dan

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    • Rebecca Shirey says:
      April 30, 2016 at 9:19 pm

      Thank you, Dan. Your mom sounds like a wise woman. Blessings to you and family!

      Reply
  4. Rebecca Shirey says:
    July 13, 2016 at 2:38 am

    Thank you so much!

    Reply
  5. RichXHuffman says:
    September 20, 2016 at 5:50 am

    To begin with I wish to say awesome blog! I needed a
    fast question that I’d prefer to ask if you do not mind.
    I had been curious to understand how you center yourself and clear your head prior
    to writing. I’ve had trouble clearing my mind in getting my thoughts on the market.
    I actually do enjoy writing nevertheless it
    just may seem like the 1st ten or fifteen minutes
    are usually wasted just trying to figure out how to
    begin. Any suggestions or hints? Thanks!

    Reply
    • Rebecca Shirey says:
      October 6, 2016 at 2:10 pm

      I clear my head by praying. I write about faith so it’s important I have Divine guidance.

      Reply

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Hi! Welcome to the place where I share about real faith for our real lives. I’m Rebecca Shirey. A writer. A speaker. A teacher, captivated by God’s Word. A student, searching for The Word in the words. A follower of Jesus Christ, grateful for His love and grace. I’m married to a pastor, who served 26 years as an Army Chaplain. We’re empty nesters, enjoying life in the Midwest and beyond

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